We usually heard of forgive and forget. Does forgeting means you already forgive and does u forgive means you will forget. Some people choose to forget where they choose to erase part of their memory of the thing that they think its an obstacle for them to move on in these life. But when some one speak of a things that make these memory reappear that person will go into a rage stage. It start to make them uneasy back. Hence they have not forgive but only forget.
When some one forgive, doesn't mean they forget. they might speak of the incident or taught back but it does not make them mind because they have truly forgiven. These people will take what has happen as something they can learn from. A new thing in their life where they experience and learn from it. This is a person that truly forgive compare to the a person saying i have forgetten all about it.
To forget is not truly to forgive. To forgive but learning from it is somethinng that is honorable and less people can do. To forgive and forget is a choice of saying forgiving and to erase what is in the memory but it might come to hurting feeling when once remembered. Truly forgive is a better choice of forgive and forget.
"Anger make you small, while forgiveness forces you to grow beyond what you were".
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